Years later, in Korea, I was much happier, but I still wanted to drown out the reality of the $60,000 of student loans I felt like I was spending a lifetime paying off and my feelings of impostor syndrome. So I bought all 10 seasons of Friends. Listening to Ross and Rachel argue in the background about being “on a break” while I did other things silenced the niggling voice in my head telling me I was, at best, average at everything and never going to dig my way out of debt.